"If that shot had gone in", we can say that about every tight game. Let's start on United - "if they didn't score that goal in the last minute".
So anyway, people being happy that we're top is laughably naive? I don't think anyone thought seriously it was anything but a nice thing to look at in black and white, I doubt many fans read too much into it, it's a long season, which is why picking up on our first defeat in ages as a sign of where we're at is equally myopic and narrow minded. We finished 7th last season, we weren't going to suddenly lose our deficiencies over night, but we're progressing well, regardless of how irrelevant you think the table is at this stage. 3 wins, a draw and a defeat is probably our best start in as long as I can remember, unless anyone expected us to become invincible over night, which is doubtful, unless you're so pig headed to seriously believe you're the only fucking realist on here.
If we hadn't fucked up it would have finished 0-0, that's about as relevant as your points about how narrow the games where and how on another day it would have cost us. Isn't that the nature of the game? The fact is we won the first three games. It's ok to be cautious, but to undermine our achievements so far? Don't be ridiculous. What if's are fruitless. We know we need to be better, but we're on the right road, and let's be honest, it's not the first time we've failed to break down a minor side at home and subsequently lost, it's been happening for decades.
And just for the record, 7 of the starters yesterday have only come into the club this year, it'll take time but the defeat is not symbolic of where we're headed, it's just a reminder of the sort of failings that these signings should eventually be looking to diminish.
We should be looking to push for Europe and beyond, the league is wide open so anything can happen, I don't think we're good enough to challenge yet (does anyone?), but we're building a good squad and we have some talented players who can progress and push for honours, but it will take time. Yesterday was disappointing but it's been as good a start as any so far, games are narrow but we've picked up points without being on top of our game. Imagine what we might do once we get going.