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Oncey's Poll


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[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg588561#msg588561 date=1212653069]
Alright, thats enough lads.
Seriously. Shut the fuck up the pair of ya's
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its nothing to do with roger now oncey its just a bit of debate with ross. I havent really read rogers posts. Its pointless.
 
Alright Rosco you have the power to end this ya hear?
*waits in the dark in the scm basement to tie Rosco to a chair*
 
[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg588591#msg588591 date=1212654635]
Alright Rosco you have the power to end this ya hear?
*waits in the dark in the scm basement to tie Rosco to a chair*
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Good luck with that.
 
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[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg588611#msg588611 date=1212655845]
I'll take you both on.
I can do it.
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no need. I'll fight with you. Tag team styleee.
 
I have not been reading this thread since it started so just spent 20 mins doing so.

Strange how it went from swinging to racism !!

Anyway on the swinging I have thought about it as my wife has some lovely looking friends but I would never do it, both of us are too jealous and I find it hard to believe the jealousy thing can never be there.

As for it being sick, no its not each to their own. But.... to be fair my friend 4is you were hardly going to be into this as you thought it was disrepsepectful to your missus to eye up some crumpet when she is not even there so I am not shocked at your moral stance, at least you are consistent Mr Vicar 😉

As for the racism thing, I do find it interesting that we can all get away with the leek gags at the welsh the being tight gags at the scottish and the thicko oirish gags from years ago but a gag or generalisation like onion bargess against an asian person is racist and insulting not because its about another race or country its purely because they are non white, that makes it different rightly or wrongly. A simple voice impression is a good example, if you did a welsh/irish/french/scottish piss take impression everyone would laugh but if you did an asian or cariibean one people would frown (remember Jim Davidson chalky white, not nowadays MR Davidson)

Its like the classic that alot of black fellas call each other nigger but if a white person said it there would be uproar.

I watched the first rush hour the other day and Chris Rock is constantly racist against Jackie Chan doing chinese voices, calling rice boy and all sorts but because he is black it is OK.

Strange world folks

Anyway about this swinging, any good web sites 8) just for looking
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588640#msg588640 date=1212657484]
Uh oh. Rosco has logged on to the thread.

*braces himself*
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One last time.

This is a judgment from the European Court of Human rights in which racism was one of the issues.

CASE OF D.H. AND OTHERS v. THE CZECH REPUBLIC

http://cmiskp.echr.coe.int////tkp19...8938380&skin=hudoc-en&attachment=true


“a) 'racism' shall mean the belief that a ground such as race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin justifies contempt for a person or a group of persons, or the notion of superiority of a person or a group of persons.

b) 'direct racial discrimination' shall mean any differential treatment based on a ground such as race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin, which has no objective and reasonable justification. Differential treatment has no objective and reasonable justification if it does not pursue a legitimate aim or if there is not a reasonable relationship of proportionality between the means employed and the aim sought to be realised.

c) 'indirect racial discrimination' shall mean cases where an apparently neutral factor such as a provision, criterion or practice cannot be as easily complied with by, or disadvantages, persons belonging to a group designated by a ground such as race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin, unless this factor has an objective and reasonable justification. This latter would be the case if it pursues a legitimate aim and if there is a reasonable relationship of proportionality between the means employed and the aim sought to be realised.




Now look at a).


The important part of it is that, no matter what it's form, behaviour is only racist if it attempts to justify contempt or infers that a person is inferior because of their race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin.

I'll argue to the death that on this occasion that isn't what happened here.
 
[quote author=Rosco link=topic=24077.msg588699#msg588699 date=1212661383]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588640#msg588640 date=1212657484]
Uh oh. Rosco has logged on to the thread.

*braces himself*
[/quote]

One last time.

This is a judgment from the European Court of Human rights in which racism was one of the issues.

CASE OF D.H. AND OTHERS v. THE CZECH REPUBLIC

http://cmiskp.echr.coe.int////tkp19...8938380&skin=hudoc-en&attachment=true


“a) 'racism' shall mean the belief that a ground such as race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin justifies contempt for a person or a group of persons, or the notion of superiority of a person or a group of persons.

b) 'direct racial discrimination' shall mean any differential treatment based on a ground such as race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin, which has no objective and reasonable justification. Differential treatment has no objective and reasonable justification if it does not pursue a legitimate aim or if there is not a reasonable relationship of proportionality between the means employed and the aim sought to be realised.

c) 'indirect racial discrimination' shall mean cases where an apparently neutral factor such as a provision, criterion or practice cannot be as easily complied with by, or disadvantages, persons belonging to a group designated by a ground such as race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin, unless this factor has an objective and reasonable justification. This latter would be the case if it pursues a legitimate aim and if there is a reasonable relationship of proportionality between the means employed and the aim sought to be realised.




Now look at a).


The important part of it is that, no matter what it's form, behaviour is only racist if it attempts to justify contempt or infers that a person is inferior because of their race, colour, language, religion, nationality or national or ethnic origin.

I'll argue to the death that on this occasion that isn't what happened here.
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I have shown you examples of real world institutions and parts of the world where their policy regarding racial harassment or racism agree with mine. What matters is what offends people. Thats what you dont seem to see. Not only are you telling me what i am allowed to find offensive but you're also telling me what i am allowed to find racist or not.

so in future if i should accidentally offend a person with regards to their race, shall i tell them to shut up and deal with it because their definition of racism doesnt quite meet my criteria?

never in a million years. If i offend someone about their race or colour, regardless of my intentions, if they see it as racially offensive and they are upset by it i would accept that and apologise.
 
[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg588739#msg588739 date=1212663916]
Its like Barack and Hilary.
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barack? Just what are you trying to say? ;D
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588734#msg588734 date=1212663343]
What matters is what offends people. Thats what you dont seem to see. Not only are you telling me what i am allowed to find offensive but you're also telling me what i am allowed to find racist or not.

so in future if i should accidentally offend a person with regards to their race, shall i tell them to shut up and deal with it because their definition of racism doesnt quite meet my criteria?

never in a million years. If i offend someone about their race or colour, regardless of my intentions, if they see it as racially offensive and they are upset by it i would accept that and apologise.
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What a fcuking arrogant and ignorant prat you are.

So are you saying that the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your definition of what racially offends and what not ? Just 'cos you're asian, that gives you the right to scream and demand the world to 'Handle (you) with care' ? Why ? 'Cos asians have the right to feel more victimized than others ? It's ppl like you that give us a bad image cos you're exactly portraying what they want us to feel...inferior. Rather than championing the so-called 'asian pride' (asians will know what I mean by the term), here you are pathetically feeling sorry for your inferiority complex.

Wake the fcuk up kid and come back to the real world. No real man will be worked up by a simple harmless phrase such as 'Onion bajhee thrower'.

This is a fcuking internet forum. Not Big Brother. Shelpy (spelling?) was subjected to racist remarks. You were not. Yet she didn't create a big hoo-ha about it. You did. She's a female. You're a 38 yo man.

Enuff said.
 
[quote author=Whaddapie link=topic=24077.msg588118#msg588118 date=1212604941]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=24077.msg588070#msg588070 date=1212603241]
[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg588006#msg588006 date=1212598968]
*shockedasfucksmily*
NO Paddy i wouldnt think/say that.
You really are quite fucking distasteful at times.
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I know what he means.

I think that phrase is more common in Ireland.

Still distasteful though and I don't think most would say it.

However as he pointed out earlier I think everyone is racist just to varying degrees to different nations.

For instance most Irish take a dislike at the mere mention of the nation Romania.
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Please stop generalising.

This is NOT the case...
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How is using the word varying degree's generalising?
 
[quote author=Rosco link=topic=24077.msg588383#msg588383 date=1212616907]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg587871#msg587871 date=1212589585]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=24077.msg587868#msg587868 date=1212589239]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg587822#msg587822 date=1212585085]
[quote author=cochyn link=topic=24077.msg587807#msg587807 date=1212583645]
this thread should be locked and binned to save any more hassle and dischord. Followed by Rog being removed!!!!!
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actually, i have found the whole thread guite interesting an insightful with regards to people's attitudes towards not only racism but the swinging thing too. I going to play devil's advocate here and suggest there is a certain degree of lack of understanding with the whole racism issue. Its fascinating.
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Sorry mate I'm not having that.

If 99% of well educated people disagree with you it should tell you something.

F8ck me your making a mountain out of a molehill.

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Don't have it then DB, that's entirely up to you. All i'm saying is that as Rosco said, maybe it's hard to appreciate unless your on the receiving end of it.

And as for the comment about 99% of people, that's just silly. I said only yesterday that every one of the black and asian guys I work with yesterday found it out of order.

I'm not making a mountain out of a molehill. I just find it interesting.
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We've agreed with you that it was out of order, what it wasn't was racism.

And as for not being on the end of it, have a read through the comments made on this thread about the Irish.

Now to bring issues of nationalism into the sphere of racism you have to construe racism as being a lot wider than the term itself suggests. But that's what you've done, and it's what I would have to do if I was to declare any of the anti-Irish comments on here as racist.

So using the broad definition of racism as laid out in Article 1 of the International Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination :
http://www2.ohchr.org/english/law/cerd.htm


"the term "racial discrimination" shall mean any distinction, exclusion, restriction or preference based on race, colour, descent, or national or ethnic origin which has the purpose or effect of nullifying or impairing the recognition, enjoyment or exercise, on an equal footing, of human rights and fundamental freedoms in the political, economic, social, cultural or any other field of public life."

So can you tell me where your human rights and fundamental freedoms have been infringed ?

Because even if I was to get upset about being called a "spudmuncher", which incidentally has a lot more history behind it than an "onion bahji thrower"., I don't think I could ever argue my human rights or fundamental freedoms have been infringed. (While we were ruled by them cunts across the water they made us grow nothing but potatoes, and when the potato blight set in a famine hit Ireland resulting in the death of an estimated one million people.)

You mentioned the monkey chants in another post too, do you not think given the long history behind it (Apartheid, US Civil Rights movement, slavery etc. etc.) it means there's a whole lot more meaning loaded into a monkey chant towards a black footballer ?

"Onion bahji thrower" doesn't carry any such connotations does it ?

Arguably "Spudmuncher" does because of the history behind it and how the Irish were treated by the English. But I wouldn't ever consider somebody calling me it as a form of racism. It's a crude stereotype, no more no less. It's nowhere near on a par with a monkey chant.

I've been working in the area of human rights for the best part of the last two years Foureyes, mainly immigration and asylum. I've dealt with cases involving non-arab Darfurians, now if you want to talk about racism that's a good place to start. The problem for people like those who have genuinely suffered is the hoops they have to jump through to be granted refugee status. The reason why they have to jump through the hoops is because there are a huge amount of completely false claims. Nothing is more frustrating than dealing with a case when you know legally the person simply can't be a refugee or because they are stretching the bounds of credibility with their story (which is being generous).

So I'm rambling. But the point is that crying wolf in situations like this just makes it harder for genuine cases of racism to get recognised. DB made the point that it's another example of a politically correct world gone mad, and I agree with him.


So to recap, what was said was you throwing a well known national dish in self defence. You've called Roger a racist because of it.

I think that's a complete overreaction and a bit silly to be honest.
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**passes out in shock**

Great post by the way.
 
Look foureyes, I know exactly what you feel and I feel sorry for you in a way.

Your blood's boiling because some caucasian guy explains how he sees racism and his views do not conform to yours.

You're thinking to yourself....how dare this guy who hasn't been subjected to racism tell me what is and what's not.

Look...there's no black and white to this matter. Rosco made his points and while they were valid ones, yours also carried a certain truth in them.

That's the problem with the world. Everyone thinks their opinions are correct. So why doesn't everyone just tolerate one another and get the fuck on ?
 
[quote author=Spionkop69 link=topic=24077.msg588780#msg588780 date=1212665538]
Is this the thread where I can abuse the Irish? ;D
[/quote]

Yes Spion.

Or we could even get regional.

You could call Ross a Jackeen or Paddy a shitkicker or DB a bogger.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg588782#msg588782 date=1212665656]
Look foureyes, I know exactly what you feel and I feel sorry for you in a way.

Your blood's boiling because some caucasian guy explains how he sees racism and his views do not conform to yours.

You're thinking to yourself....how dare this guy who hasn't been subjected to racism tell me what is and what's not.

Look...there's no black and white to this matter. Rosco made his points and while they were valid ones, yours also carried a certain truth in them.

That's the problem with the world. Everyone thinks their opinions are correct. So why doesn't everyone just tolerate one another and get the fuck on ?


[/quote]

I agree Roger.

And I'll have a number 42, a number 62 and special fried rice but with no peas.
 
[quote author=Rosco link=topic=24077.msg588417#msg588417 date=1212619639]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588413#msg588413 date=1212619234]
[quote author=Rosco link=topic=24077.msg588411#msg588411 date=1212619000]
Roger joked that you would throw an onion bahji in self defence.

Completely different from what you're going on about.


EDIT: I agree Roger should have stopped when you made it clear you weren't comfortable with it. But in saying that I think you're being very thin skinned.





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No it isn't. I think we have a very different definition of racism. Yours seems to be very literal and technical. It's not as clear cut as that. If you asked most people how they view racism, |I very much doubt the majority would give the definition you gave.
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That's because they're wrong. They are the PC brigade.

Slagging people off based on cultural or national sterotypes isn't nice, but it's not really racism.

Someone calling you an onion bhaji thrower/muncher or whatever is making reference to the fact that you're of Indian origin.

Someone calling a black person a monkey isn't just referring to the fact that they're black. It brings in all sorts of notions of them being second class citizens, primitive and all sorts of other disgusting notions, simply because of their skin colour.

Onion bhaji thrower doesn't have any such meaning does it ? It doesn't in some way infer that you're some sort of subhuman second class species does it ?
[/quote]

I haven't read the rest, but can I hire you to argue with Brendan for me!
 
[quote author=Mr Moominpoops link=topic=24077.msg588785#msg588785 date=1212665707]
[quote author=Spionkop69 link=topic=24077.msg588780#msg588780 date=1212665538]
Is this the thread where I can abuse the Irish? ;D
[/quote]

Yes Spion.

Or we could even get regional.

You could call Ross a Jackeen or Paddy a shitkicker or DB a bogger.
[/quote]

Or Ross could call us "those cunts across the water". Or was he referring to the Yanks? 😉
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg588758#msg588758 date=1212664963]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588734#msg588734 date=1212663343]
What matters is what offends people. Thats what you dont seem to see. Not only are you telling me what i am allowed to find offensive but you're also telling me what i am allowed to find racist or not.

so in future if i should accidentally offend a person with regards to their race, shall i tell them to shut up and deal with it because their definition of racism doesnt quite meet my criteria?

never in a million years. If i offend someone about their race or colour, regardless of my intentions, if they see it as racially offensive and they are upset by it i would accept that and apologise.
[/quote]

What a fcuking arrogant and ignorant prat you are.

So are you saying that the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your definition of what racially offends and what not ? Just 'cos you're asian, that gives you the right to scream and demand the world to 'Handle (you) with care' ? Why ? 'Cos asians have the right to feel more victimized than others ? It's ppl like you that give us a bad image cos you're exactly portraying what they want us to feel...inferior. Rather than championing the so-called 'asian pride' (asians will know what I mean by the term), here you are pathetically feeling sorry for your inferiority complex.

Wake the fcuk up kid and come back to the real world. No real man will be worked up by a simple harmless phrase such as 'Onion bajhee thrower'.

This is a fcuking internet forum. Not Big Brother. Shelpy (spelling?) was subjected to racist remarks. You were not. Yet she didn't create a big hoo-ha about it. You did. She's a female. You're a 38 yo man.

Enuff said.


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thrushy, i really do feel sorry for you. You have nothing to say but the same old shit over and over for one reason only. For the first time in your sad little life you are actually getting a little attention. You're like a pig in shit rolling around in it revelling in the spot light. You get battered and abused and have the piss taken out of you by everybody on there boards and for once you feel a little secure because you are under the impression that everybody is on your side and that we all love you. You need a reality check. You are a twat of the highest order. Just look at how most people respond to your posts and just what they say to you. And you wonder why your depressed? You bring it on yourself you cock. Now you can carry on all you like but i'm not giving you any more of the spotlight you seem to be enjoying at the moment.

i am having an intelligent debate with intelligent posters on this site. you are a retard. Find some other children to play with.
 
[quote author=Mr Moominpoops link=topic=24077.msg588786#msg588786 date=1212665764]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg588782#msg588782 date=1212665656]
Look foureyes, I know exactly what you feel and I feel sorry for you in a way.

Your blood's boiling because some caucasian guy explains how he sees racism and his views do not conform to yours.

You're thinking to yourself....how dare this guy who hasn't been subjected to racism tell me what is and what's not.

Look...there's no black and white to this matter. Rosco made his points and while they were valid ones, yours also carried a certain truth in them.

That's the problem with the world. Everyone thinks their opinions are correct. So why doesn't everyone just tolerate one another and get the fuck on ?


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I agree Roger.

And I'll have a number 42, a number 62 and special fried rice but with no peas.
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No probs.

You're getting the bill though.
 
[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg588439#msg588439 date=1212621726]
To be fair it doesnt matter wether or not anyone finds it offensive.
If the person it was aimed at does, is that not enough?
Lots of people get offended by different things, and the decent thing to do is respect that regardless of how ill it sits isnt it?

I can understand both viewpoints, what i dont understand is posters viewing this as a crusade to prove the lad wrong (applause etc).
It offended him, and that should be enough for Rog to have apologised. Thats what a civilized person would do.
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Ha ha come on Andy,

there are lots of posters on here that offend others on a regular basis and its let slide because either the poster is funny or nobody else finds offense or cares......

You can't have it both ways.
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588795#msg588795 date=1212666129]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg588758#msg588758 date=1212664963]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg588734#msg588734 date=1212663343]
What matters is what offends people. Thats what you dont seem to see. Not only are you telling me what i am allowed to find offensive but you're also telling me what i am allowed to find racist or not.

so in future if i should accidentally offend a person with regards to their race, shall i tell them to shut up and deal with it because their definition of racism doesnt quite meet my criteria?

never in a million years. If i offend someone about their race or colour, regardless of my intentions, if they see it as racially offensive and they are upset by it i would accept that and apologise.
[/quote]

What a fcuking arrogant and ignorant prat you are.

So are you saying that the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your definition of what racially offends and what not ? Just 'cos you're asian, that gives you the right to scream and demand the world to 'Handle (you) with care' ? Why ? 'Cos asians have the right to feel more victimized than others ? It's ppl like you that give us a bad image cos you're exactly portraying what they want us to feel...inferior. Rather than championing the so-called 'asian pride' (asians will know what I mean by the term), here you are pathetically feeling sorry for your inferiority complex.

Wake the fcuk up kid and come back to the real world. No real man will be worked up by a simple harmless phrase such as 'Onion bajhee thrower'.

This is a fcuking internet forum. Not Big Brother. Shelpy (spelling?) was subjected to racist remarks. You were not. Yet she didn't create a big hoo-ha about it. You did. She's a female. You're a 38 yo man.

Enuff said.


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thrushy, i really do feel sorry for you. You have nothing to say but the same old shit over and over for one reason only. For the first time in your sad little life you are actually getting a little attention. You're like a pig in shit rolling around in it revelling in the spot light. You get battered and abused and have the piss taken out of you by everybody on there boards and for once you feel a little secure because you are under the impression that everybody is on your side and that we all love you. You need a reality check. You are a twat of the highest order. Just look at how most people respond to your posts and just what they say to you. And you wonder why your depressed? You bring it on yourself you cock. Now you can carry on all you like but i'm not giving you any more of the spotlight you seem to be enjoying at the moment.

i am having an intelligent debate with intelligent posters on this site. you are a retard. Find some other children to play with.
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Haha I'm racist and apparently I'm depressed now. Cheers, doc.

Ooo wait wait...he's havin an 'intelligent debate' as well.

Is this guy for real ? 'Kinell.

Does anyone believe he's really 38 ? I certainly don't.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg588782#msg588782 date=1212665656]
Look foureyes, I know exactly what you feel and I feel sorry for you in a way.

Your blood's boiling because some caucasian guy explains how he sees racism and his views do not conform to yours.

You're thinking to yourself....how dare this guy who hasn't been subjected to racism tell me what is and what's not.

Look...there's no black and white to this matter. Rosco made his points and while they were valid ones, yours also carried a certain truth in them.

That's the problem with the world. Everyone thinks their opinions are correct. So why doesn't everyone just tolerate one another and get the fuck on ?


[/quote]

ha. Ok ok, who did you get to write that for you? Thats the only sensible thing i have ever seen you post. At least you are learning.
 
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