Both were pens. It does not, repeat not matter how "soft" Virgil's contact was - the contact was there, it was a foul warranting a direct free-kick, so in the area it's a penalty and I for one would have been steaming if someone got away with a similar tackle against us.
Fulham took 4 points out of 6 off us last time they were in the Prem and earned one yesterday. Let's face the facts here and fix what needs fixing.