That's a heavy burden to carry around with you Jono.
I hope you have found peace and respite from it all
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I hope you have found peace and respite from it all
It took a while, but I'm in a real good place, and after many years so is my Sister.. It could have very easily went the other way when I was younger though.. as I went through the mill..
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Glad to hear that mate.
Shit mate. Well done for getting through to the other side of that head fuck.
Thinking back, he was a proper dirty basterd..
He was single, never had a girlfriend and lived with his mother in a flat... She was incredibly Strange... Easily Spooked... Often getting picked on from the young locals, because of it... No doubt he was upto no good with her too..
Anyway I would often go round to his. He had this small box room Cupboard, he kept locked, which was fulll of porno mags scattered on the floor.. It was like his secret place, no one was ever allowed in there and he was proud of it... Yet despite the supposed secrecy he let it be known to me what he was actually keeping in there.. 'Shhh don't tell your Dad' he would often say.. Given how much I feared my Dad, I wouldn't dare too.. Thing is he knew this too, and played on it, probably for his own gain..
The abuse would usually start from him telling you about stories of his past loves, I was too young to understand them, but he would have both my sisters gripped with these stories, and before you knew it I was doing silly things to the youngest of my two sisters when my eldest sister wasn't around.
My Eldest sister grew suspicious of him, but she could not put her finger on it. She was creeped out by the way she felt she was constantly Eyeballed by him as she became a teenager..
She complained to my Dad about it numerous times, he ignored it and often as he did followed it up with a Slap.. My mum (before she went ill - another story) stepped in after a while and sent him on his way...
The abuse stopped, but the Scars remained..
Anyway this story shows you how much of Parasite these people really are, usually they are people in a position of trust, you look up to as child, and the cunts takes it a step too far..
I really feel for these footballers, looking upto their coaches, who are in a position of trust. Some young footballers probably looked at them as father figures as you would often hear with coaches, only to be exploited by one or two of the individuals.. the sick cunts..
He was single, never had a girlfriend and lived with his mother in a flat... She was incredibly Strange... Easily Spooked... Often getting picked on from the young locals, because of it... No doubt he was upto no good with her too..
Anyway I would often go round to his. He had this small box room Cupboard, he kept locked, which was fulll of porno mags scattered on the floor.. It was like his secret place, no one was ever allowed in there and he was proud of it... Yet despite the supposed secrecy he let it be known to me what he was actually keeping in there.. 'Shhh don't tell your Dad' he would often say.. Given how much I feared my Dad, I wouldn't dare too.. Thing is he knew this too, and played on it, probably for his own gain..
The abuse would usually start from him telling you about stories of his past loves, I was too young to understand them, but he would have both my sisters gripped with these stories, and before you knew it I was doing silly things to the youngest of my two sisters when my eldest sister wasn't around.
My Eldest sister grew suspicious of him, but she could not put her finger on it. She was creeped out by the way she felt she was constantly Eyeballed by him as she became a teenager..
She complained to my Dad about it numerous times, he ignored it and often as he did followed it up with a Slap.. My mum (before she went ill - another story) stepped in after a while and sent him on his way...
The abuse stopped, but the Scars remained..
Anyway this story shows you how much of Parasite these people really are, usually they are people in a position of trust, you look up to as child, and the cunts takes it a step too far..
I really feel for these footballers, looking upto their coaches, who are in a position of trust. Some young footballers probably looked at them as father figures as you would often hear with coaches, only to be exploited by one or two of the individuals.. the sick cunts..
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So sorry mate, and I felt physically sick for you reading it.
Yes It can be tough reading for some, but I dont find it too difficult talking about it now, obviously it's not something I go out of my way to talk about... I went past all that numbness a long long time ago.. You may have to take a third person view I guess, helps you cope with it better..
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Yeah that's truly awful reading RedNinja. I'm glad you and your sister have gone on to lead happy lives
You're right, the more appropriate thing to do is to joke about 'getting fingered', 'being sucked off', 'bummed', or being 'left out'.
All of which are clearly "peripheral matters."
Do me a fucking favour.
I will, since none of that concerns me. Here's a favour, you tiny brained twat, go to hell and concentrate on your pathetic self-appointed role as style guru and tactical mastermind, until you grow up and learn to just be, or pretend to be, a normal human being who doesn't use football forums for his bizarrely irregular attempts to seem to be vaguely moral rather than the vainglorious, self-obsessed and preening buffoon that he's happy to play the rest of the time.
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You edited that?!
Would love to have seen the unfiltered version.
Regardless, I seem to really upset you - on a personal level too by the looks of it. You initiated this personal tirade, which for someone of your age and maturity is a bit worrying. You should perhaps ask yourself why you need "to discuss the subject so seriously in a football forum" after all.
Can't we all just have an asexual, non-predatory, group hug?
Anger about flippant, joking posts in a sensitive and sad thread.
Followed by anger about anger about flippant, joking posts in a sesnsitive and sad thread.
Luckily, following the demotion of limp-wristed 'can't we all just get along' Hippy Moderator Fabio, the steely hand of Oncey is back on the tiller, grimly meting out justice and keeping the peace
Getting as bad as RAWK, this place
Followed by anger about anger about flippant, joking posts in a sesnsitive and sad thread.
Luckily, following the demotion of limp-wristed 'can't we all just get along' Hippy Moderator Fabio, the steely hand of Oncey is back on the tiller, grimly meting out justice and keeping the peace
Getting as bad as RAWK, this place
I'm a little surprised it's taken this issue to create the kerfuffle given the fairly regular, light-hearted comments linked to the abduction and presumed murder of a child and various posters' propensity to use the words 'rape', 'raped' and 'raping' when discussing one team or one player's domination of another.
And, lest we forget.......The Jade Goody thread.
I don't see the raped/ rape thing much anymore, as I presume it's become a bit mainstream and smalltime to use violent sexual assault as a metaphor for great football and winning games.
Is it a metaphor?
where's Jules/ macca?
It possibly became uncool when the FA put it on that leaflet of inappropriate words which you're not allowed to chant because they make reference to sexual orientation.
Must be an analogy, surely.
The trademark Oncy flip flop
Child abuse is a foul evil. I spent part of my career working with various statutory agencies to try and help kids who went through it, and I'm still doing so in retirement as vice-chair of governors of a school for kids with severe emotional and behavioural difficulties, the overwhelming majority of which difficulties have their roots in inadequate home backgrounds which all too often feature abuse of one kind or another. RedNinja's courageous sharing is one of the bravest things I've ever seen on here and there won't be a single one of us who doesn't admire it or the way he's come through what he described in it.
However, I'm not offering any apologies for supporting macca's disagreement with the holier-than-thou tone of the posts complaining about some other posts in the thread. I as it happens wouldn't choose to make humorous remarks about this subject, not least because I know what the detail of it can be like, but if we're going to get sniffy about such things every sensitive subject should also be treated with kid gloves. I'm afraid I don't see the justification for taking this one admittedly horrifying aspect of life and making it a special case all on its own.
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