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Swingers & swinging...

Oncey's Poll


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[quote author=Whaddapie link=topic=24077.msg585087#msg585087 date=1212304743]
Ok. Fair enough.

A lot of well thought out and logical arguments from both sides on this one... That's what I was looking for, and expected.

IMHO, there's no right or wrong answer on this topic, or in most of the 'big', real life debates - It's just whatever works for the people themselves - Nobody knows what makes up another person.

Question for all the "It's just wrong" brigade, though: Your missus brings her beautiful college girlfriend home, after a girls night out and a few cocktails, and they both want to 'try something new' with you tonight.
Your wife is keen, her girlfriend's keen, and it's all up to you. No strings attached - She's going home tomorrow...

Same answer?
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Absolutely. And to be honest, if that's the kinda gal she is, I wouldn't have been with her in the first place. Not my type.
 
[quote author=Skullflower link=topic=24077.msg584071#msg584071 date=1212148814]
i think you have to be semi psychopathic to be involved in this kind of stuff.
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So clearly you're involved then.
 
[quote author=Spionkop69 link=topic=24077.msg585323#msg585323 date=1212347205]
[quote author=Skullflower link=topic=24077.msg584071#msg584071 date=1212148814]
i think you have to be semi psychopathic to be involved in this kind of stuff.
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So clearly you're involved then.
[/quote]

Ha !
 
[quote author=Spionkop69 link=topic=24077.msg585323#msg585323 date=1212347205]
[quote author=Skullflower link=topic=24077.msg584071#msg584071 date=1212148814]
i think you have to be semi psychopathic to be involved in this kind of stuff.
[/quote]

So clearly you're involved then.
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Doubt it, that would mean Skully has a bird, which he obviously doesn't.
 
Not my thing, happy to 'contribute' if I was single, but no way would I want another guy with my girl, or potentially jepordise our relationship..
 
[quote author=reuque link=topic=24077.msg585117#msg585117 date=1212309278]
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585112#msg585112 date=1212308741]
Relationship between 2 lovers is already so fraught with complications, add another 1 or 2 persons into the mix will create more problems exponentially!!!!

To avoid it, no thanks for me too....
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You speak upon experience, Mike?



=p


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Yeah Rq, I am a one woman man. I only have one woman, my ex girl friend whom I am now married to all these years. I find relationship with a woman so complicated as it is (which I have tremendous amount of pleasure too), for me it is best to stick to one and only one.

Woman, who can understand them? 😉
 
[quote author=Herr Onceared link=topic=24077.msg585499#msg585499 date=1212387352]
You married your ex?
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Haha, there is a saying here. My girl friend became my ex girlfriend the moment she became my wife and roomate. 😉

Ah, women they are wonderful creatures. Cant do without them. Yet they give us so much heartaches. hehehe.
 
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585520#msg585520 date=1212393351]
Haha, there is a saying here. My girl friend became my ex girlfriend the moment she became my wife and roomate. 😉

Ah, women they are wonderful creatures. Cant do without them. Yet they give us so much heartaches. hehehe.
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So your wife is your ex, & your roomate?

Confusing.

And when you say 'became your roomate, does that mean that you didnt live with her til you got married?!

That's very, very brave. I've lived with loads of girls/women throughout the years & one or two were great girlfriend material,. until I move in with them, or them with me.
 
Most of us do not live with girlfriend until we marry.

In fact for the older generation, some would not have met with their wife to be until they are married!

Match made by parents....

Me, I married the girl I love.
 
That's what I did too Y1 - My lady & I moved in only after we got married. There has been a little adjustments here and there but overall, a smooth & very enjoyable ride.
 
Wizzy, when relationship is more than sex, we learn to live and adjust. I am married 25 years last August. It has been a good life for the both of us.
 
[quote author=LeTallecWiz link=topic=24077.msg585694#msg585694 date=1212405350]
really!?!?

I thought you were in your 20s ... Damn man, you're telling me you're in your mid 40s?
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Beat me to it.

I was under the very same impression.
 
am i that youthful? 😉

i have eaten more salt than many here have eaten rice

(an euphemism for experience, a chinese saying)

my eldest son is doing his A levels
 
Kaka, sensei is a chinese drugist/herbal practitioner. yes he might be old too.

sifu is a teacher who is also usually old

lohyeh is an old man

loh chin phui is a elder person in cantonese, more respectful... more apt

hahaha
 
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585713#msg585713 date=1212406564]
Kaka, sensei is a chinese drugist/herbal practitioner. yes he might be old too.

sifu is a teacher who is also usually old

lohyeh is an old man

loh chin phui is a elder person in cantonese, more respectful... more apt

hahaha


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I had to call my Kung Fu teacher Sifu. Even though he was younger than me.
 
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg586309#msg586309 date=1212445377]
But he is your teacher, he knows more than you. That's why he is your sifu.
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Absolutely. Which is why I always insist on calling him just that. Sifu.
 
That is being respectful.

Very oriental.

Respecting your elders, teachers and parents.


*ooops, i am not showing respect here. i have hijacked the thread. veli solli ah* 😉
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586033#msg586033 date=1212424950]
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585713#msg585713 date=1212406564]
Kaka, sensei is a chinese drugist/herbal practitioner. yes he might be old too.

sifu is a teacher who is also usually old

lohyeh is an old man

loh chin phui is a elder person in cantonese, more respectful... more apt

hahaha


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I had to call my Kung Fu teacher Sifu. Even though he was younger than me.
[/quote]

An indian/pakistani who practises Kungfu ? Which stance did you master ?

The 'preying mantis' stance ?

Or do you just throw onion bajhees at your opponents ?
 
[quote author=Brendan link=topic=24077.msg585370#msg585370 date=1212353113]
[quote author=Spionkop69 link=topic=24077.msg585323#msg585323 date=1212347205]
[quote author=Skullflower link=topic=24077.msg584071#msg584071 date=1212148814]
i think you have to be semi psychopathic to be involved in this kind of stuff.
[/quote]

So clearly you're involved then.
[/quote]

Doubt it, that would mean Skully has a bird, which he obviously doesn't.
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:'(


i think i'm an acquired taste, or something.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg586377#msg586377 date=1212465655]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586033#msg586033 date=1212424950]
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585713#msg585713 date=1212406564]
Kaka, sensei is a chinese drugist/herbal practitioner. yes he might be old too.

sifu is a teacher who is also usually old

lohyeh is an old man

loh chin phui is a elder person in cantonese, more respectful... more apt

hahaha


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I had to call my Kung Fu teacher Sifu. Even though he was younger than me.
[/quote]

An indian/pakistani who practises Kungfu ? Which stance did you master ?

The 'preying mantis' stance ?

Or do you just throw onion bajhees at your opponents ?


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You are without a doubt the single most idiotic and ignorant poster on this site. There are more than a few Asians that would easily take offence to that. I'm one of them. Please edit your post.
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586416#msg586416 date=1212477927]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg586377#msg586377 date=1212465655]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586033#msg586033 date=1212424950]
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585713#msg585713 date=1212406564]
Kaka, sensei is a chinese drugist/herbal practitioner. yes he might be old too.

sifu is a teacher who is also usually old

lohyeh is an old man

loh chin phui is a elder person in cantonese, more respectful... more apt

hahaha


[/quote]

I had to call my Kung Fu teacher Sifu. Even though he was younger than me.
[/quote]

An indian/pakistani who practises Kungfu ? Which stance did you master ?

The 'preying mantis' stance ?

Or do you just throw onion bajhees at your opponents ?


[/quote]

You are without a doubt the single most idiotic and ignorant poster on this site. There are more than a few Asians that would easily take offence to that. I'm one of them. Please edit your post.
[/quote]

I love onion bajhees btw.

Haieeeeee yahhhh !!
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg586421#msg586421 date=1212478689]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586416#msg586416 date=1212477927]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg586377#msg586377 date=1212465655]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586033#msg586033 date=1212424950]
[quote author=Y1 link=topic=24077.msg585713#msg585713 date=1212406564]
Kaka, sensei is a chinese drugist/herbal practitioner. yes he might be old too.

sifu is a teacher who is also usually old

lohyeh is an old man

loh chin phui is a elder person in cantonese, more respectful... more apt

hahaha


[/quote]

I had to call my Kung Fu teacher Sifu. Even though he was younger than me.
[/quote]

An indian/pakistani who practises Kungfu ? Which stance did you master ?

The 'preying mantis' stance ?

Or do you just throw onion bajhees at your opponents ?


[/quote]

You are without a doubt the single most idiotic and ignorant poster on this site. There are more than a few Asians that would easily take offence to that. I'm one of them. Please edit your post.
[/quote]

I love onion bajhees btw.

Haieeeeee yahhhh !!
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Are you fucking for real? I tell you that your comment is a racist one and that I take offence to it and you carry on? You make it worse? You're a cock. You really are. You sit there thinking i'm getting all upset, and that you're actually winning a little cyber debate for once. You're simply showing everyone what a retard you are. I feel sorry for you boy.
 
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