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Swingers & swinging...

Oncey's Poll


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[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587017#msg587017 date=1212508613]
Oh ffs foureyes, light the fcuk up you onion bajhee farting pansy.

Just cos you're fucking asian, it doesnt mean the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your colour and watch what they say or joke about. In fact, you're probably more racist than most of us cos it seems to bother you more and you think of 'race' more than us. What defines a 'racist' ? It's when that person sees the world through a pair of 'race'-tinted glasses. Everything's that going on in this world, or said to you has to go through your filter in that if it's racist, prejudiced, or stereotyped or not. Gawd, it must feel real miserably uptight being you.

I suggest you take a leaf out of ppl's books such as Anita, Asim, SingleRider, Ong, LeTallecWiz and probably even myself...by removing that pair of glasses and seeing the world how it should be seen....with the heart.

Do they care if someone makes a joke bout their race ? Especially on an internet website ? Do they fcuk.

Look around these boards and you'll notice, every now and then, ppl take the piss out of the Oirish. But do you see a huge, overly-dramatic tantrum thrown about ? Hell naw. Banter, rather than arguments, ensues instead.

My joke about onion bajhees may be a bit tasteless (blatantly a lie cos I find onion bajhees yummy) but there was in no way whatsoever, meant to be racist nor was it intended to insult. It's not my fault you took it the wrong way and made a big fuss out of it.

See what you've fcukign done. You made me try to write a long-winded post, which I've hardly done so for like a million years. My vocab's pretty limited and it makes it look incoherent.

*tries to use the excuse of a poor command of English language to get away out of a messy situation once again*
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Fuck me, you don't help yourself sometimes. It might have helped drive your point home better if you didn't resort to insults.
 
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=24077.msg587051#msg587051 date=1212510286]
It might work for others but I could never ever go back to normal after it.
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I know what you mean. It's a tough one in theory really - though definitely not for me. I was going to post that it depends how "in love" you are with your partner/wife, but I guess that leave sme open to the counter-argument that if you really loved someone you wouldn't want to possess them.

I just couldn't watch my wife be fucked by anyone else, as much as I can get aroused by the idea.
 
[quote author=Bristow link=topic=24077.msg584030#msg584030 date=1212147089]
you are being quite ignorant here though foureyes, just because you wouldnt swing doesn't mean that a couple that do swing don't love each other, they just have a very different view on sex.

I don't mind the idea of it, but I unless I met a woman who made me feel that secure then i'm pretty sure I wouldn't as i'd want her all to myself!
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Exactly, I'm with foureyes on this but it just means that peoples view of s*x and love can be very different.
 
[quote author=mark1975 link=topic=24077.msg584035#msg584035 date=1212147455]
To each their own.. It's upto them, I know a few people of tried it, one couple still do it frequently and another...

..A guy I know was with some girl for years and he got her into all kinds, started off watching her get fucked by other men, meeting them up at Frodsham Hill and sometimes getting paid for it (yeah, it was basically prostitution, but she loved it) and then it went on to porn movies and pictures. He said the first time he watched her getting fucked by a guy, he sat in the corner wanking and crying. She started meeting with one of their regulars behind his back, and that was the end of it, and them.

How fucked up is that?
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He got what he deserved.

It is very rare any human can have regular s*x with someone and not get attached.

More so for woman from my experience.
 
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=24077.msg587067#msg587067 date=1212510960]
[quote author=mark1975 link=topic=24077.msg584035#msg584035 date=1212147455]
To each their own.. It's upto them, I know a few people of tried it, one couple still do it frequently and another...

..A guy I know was with some girl for years and he got her into all kinds, started off watching her get fucked by other men, meeting them up at Frodsham Hill and sometimes getting paid for it (yeah, it was basically prostitution, but she loved it) and then it went on to porn movies and pictures. He said the first time he watched her getting fucked by a guy, he sat in the corner wanking and crying. She started meeting with one of their regulars behind his back, and that was the end of it, and them.

How fucked up is that?
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He got what he deserved.

It is very rare any human can have regular s*x with someone and not get attached.

More so for woman from my experience.
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Harsh. Very harsh.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587017#msg587017 date=1212508613]
Oh ffs foureyes, light the fcuk up you onion bajhee farting pansy.

Just cos you're fucking asian, it doesnt mean the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your colour and watch what they say or joke about. In fact, you're probably more racist than most of us cos it seems to bother you more and you think of 'race' more than us. What defines a 'racist' ? It's when that person sees the world through a pair of 'race'-tinted glasses. Everything's that going on in this world, or said to you has to go through your filter in that if it's racist, prejudiced, or stereotyped or not. Gawd, it must feel real miserably uptight being you.

I suggest you take a leaf out of ppl's books such as Anita, Asim, SingleRider, Ong, LeTallecWiz and probably even myself...by removing that pair of glasses and seeing the world how it should be seen....with the heart.

Do they care if someone makes a joke bout their race ? Especially on an internet website ? Do they fcuk.

Look around these boards and you'll notice, every now and then, ppl take the piss out of the Oirish. But do you see a huge, overly-dramatic tantrum thrown about ? Hell naw. Banter, rather than arguments, ensues instead.

My joke about onion bajhees may be a bit tasteless (blatantly a lie cos I find onion bajhees yummy) but there was in no way whatsoever, meant to be racist nor was it intended to insult. It's not my fault you took it the wrong way and made a big fuss out of it.

See what you've fcukign done. You made me try to write a long-winded post, which I've hardly done so for like a million years. My vocab's pretty limited and it makes it look incoherent.

*tries to use the excuse of a poor command of English language to get away out of a messy situation once again*
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Sorry guys, but I don't see how the fuk anyone can't see that as being anything other than racially offensive. I work with three asians and a caribbean chap, and all of them found that shite offensive.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587022#msg587022 date=1212508893]
[quote author=livvy145 link=topic=24077.msg586988#msg586988 date=1212507180]
Roger should definitely apologise.
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Sorry foureyes.

Notice how easy my effort was ?

Foureyes, you need to learn how to chill the fcuk out and see life with a hearty smile, rather than a frown or a sulk.
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Roger, you need a brain.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587083#msg587083 date=1212511510]
DB you're a lifesaver.


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Why don't you ask him if he throws potatos at people?

He's Irish,after all.

And Specky, forget it.

Roger's the way he is.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587017#msg587017 date=1212508613]
Oh ffs foureyes, light the fcuk up you onion bajhee farting pansy.

Just cos you're fucking asian, it doesnt mean the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your colour and watch what they say or joke about. In fact, you're probably more racist than most of us cos it seems to bother you more and you think of 'race' more than us. What defines a 'racist' ? It's when that person sees the world through a pair of 'race'-tinted glasses. Everything's that going on in this world, or said to you has to go through your filter in that if it's racist, prejudiced, or stereotyped or not. Gawd, it must feel real miserably uptight being you.

I suggest you take a leaf out of ppl's books such as Anita, Asim, SingleRider, Ong, LeTallecWiz and probably even myself...by removing that pair of glasses and seeing the world how it should be seen....with the heart.

Do they care if someone makes a joke bout their race ? Especially on an internet website ? Do they fcuk.

Look around these boards and you'll notice, every now and then, ppl take the piss out of the Oirish. But do you see a huge, overly-dramatic tantrum thrown about ? Hell naw. Banter, rather than arguments, ensues instead.

My joke about onion bajhees may be a bit tasteless (blatantly a lie cos I find onion bajhees yummy) but there was in no way whatsoever, meant to be racist nor was it intended to insult. It's not my fault you took it the wrong way and made a big fuss out of it.

See what you've fcukign done. You made me try to write a long-winded post, which I've hardly done so for like a million years. My vocab's pretty limited and it makes it look incoherent.

*tries to use the excuse of a poor command of English language to get away out of a messy situation once again*
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If there was an Olympics of thick! You would be Carl Lewis.
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg587092#msg587092 date=1212512301]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587017#msg587017 date=1212508613]
Oh ffs foureyes, light the fcuk up you onion bajhee farting pansy.

Just cos you're fucking asian, it doesnt mean the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your colour and watch what they say or joke about. In fact, you're probably more racist than most of us cos it seems to bother you more and you think of 'race' more than us. What defines a 'racist' ? It's when that person sees the world through a pair of 'race'-tinted glasses. Everything's that going on in this world, or said to you has to go through your filter in that if it's racist, prejudiced, or stereotyped or not. Gawd, it must feel real miserably uptight being you.

I suggest you take a leaf out of ppl's books such as Anita, Asim, SingleRider, Ong, LeTallecWiz and probably even myself...by removing that pair of glasses and seeing the world how it should be seen....with the heart.

Do they care if someone makes a joke bout their race ? Especially on an internet website ? Do they fcuk.

Look around these boards and you'll notice, every now and then, ppl take the piss out of the Oirish. But do you see a huge, overly-dramatic tantrum thrown about ? Hell naw. Banter, rather than arguments, ensues instead.

My joke about onion bajhees may be a bit tasteless (blatantly a lie cos I find onion bajhees yummy) but there was in no way whatsoever, meant to be racist nor was it intended to insult. It's not my fault you took it the wrong way and made a big fuss out of it.

See what you've fcukign done. You made me try to write a long-winded post, which I've hardly done so for like a million years. My vocab's pretty limited and it makes it look incoherent.

*tries to use the excuse of a poor command of English language to get away out of a messy situation once again*
[/quote]

Sorry guys, but I don't see how the fuk anyone can't see that as being anything other than racially offensive. I work with three asians and a caribbean chap, and all of them found that shite offensive.
[/quote]

The ironic bit is that I'm fcuking Asian too.
 
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587100#msg587100 date=1212513062]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg587092#msg587092 date=1212512301]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587017#msg587017 date=1212508613]
Oh ffs foureyes, light the fcuk up you onion bajhee farting pansy.

Just cos you're fucking asian, it doesnt mean the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your colour and watch what they say or joke about. In fact, you're probably more racist than most of us cos it seems to bother you more and you think of 'race' more than us. What defines a 'racist' ? It's when that person sees the world through a pair of 'race'-tinted glasses. Everything's that going on in this world, or said to you has to go through your filter in that if it's racist, prejudiced, or stereotyped or not. Gawd, it must feel real miserably uptight being you.

I suggest you take a leaf out of ppl's books such as Anita, Asim, SingleRider, Ong, LeTallecWiz and probably even myself...by removing that pair of glasses and seeing the world how it should be seen....with the heart.

Do they care if someone makes a joke bout their race ? Especially on an internet website ? Do they fcuk.

Look around these boards and you'll notice, every now and then, ppl take the piss out of the Oirish. But do you see a huge, overly-dramatic tantrum thrown about ? Hell naw. Banter, rather than arguments, ensues instead.

My joke about onion bajhees may be a bit tasteless (blatantly a lie cos I find onion bajhees yummy) but there was in no way whatsoever, meant to be racist nor was it intended to insult. It's not my fault you took it the wrong way and made a big fuss out of it.

See what you've fcukign done. You made me try to write a long-winded post, which I've hardly done so for like a million years. My vocab's pretty limited and it makes it look incoherent.

*tries to use the excuse of a poor command of English language to get away out of a messy situation once again*
[/quote]

Sorry guys, but I don't see how the fuk anyone can't see that as being anything other than racially offensive. I work with three asians and a caribbean chap, and all of them found that shite offensive.
[/quote]

The ironic bit is that I'm fcuking Asian too.



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It makes no difference to me you fucking retard. Your definition of racism was without a doubt the most distorted and intellectually challenged prose I have ever read on these forums. I made so very very clear that I found it offensive. You made it obvious that you knew I was Indian/Pakistani. You then harped on about onion fucking bhajees. I told you I found it offensive and you persisted with your racial wise cracks.

Now if you were somebody I got along with and had a laugh with about my skin colour that's different. I have had a laugh and joke with folks on this site about it and it's never been an issue. But you irritate and aggravate most people. You've been rude to me before on many occasions. It's blatantly fucking obvious it's not friendly banter when it's dribbling out of your mouth as opposed to someone I get on with.

You made a racist remark and continued to do so. If you think it's ok to do that in life by all means carry on, but it's wrong Roger. If you're Asian yourself, the time will come when the shoe is on the other foot and you experience it for yourself. Then, finally, the veil of ignorance you peek through at the moment may be lifted and you will see things differently.
 
[quote author=Loch Ness Monster link=topic=24077.msg584475#msg584475 date=1212171206]
Oooooh, great thread.

I have never tried or been offered the chance to swing, although I make several jokes about it on couples-nights out to unnerve my mates other halves.


If it for you, then go for it.
If not then leave it well alone.


You need to have a deep level of trust, and I assume that you must be a little nuts to actually have the balls to do it.
Its just another different type of relationship, where you both share an interest.
Like the both playing backgammon, or both wearing an adult nappy and shitting in it.

Each to their own I say.
[/quote]

So I can't have mrs Nessie afterall?
 
*comes back in from a day on the farm*

*eats spuds*

*takes off wellies*

*sticks on rerun of glenroe*
 
[quote author=Rosco link=topic=24077.msg584654#msg584654 date=1212191624]
I think I'd be one of the conservative bunch on here.

Yeah it's fun, but I don't see it as being particularly conducive to a healthy relationship.
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I think we are at least 20 years away from that in Ireland
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg587103#msg587103 date=1212513564]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587100#msg587100 date=1212513062]
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg587092#msg587092 date=1212512301]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg587017#msg587017 date=1212508613]
Oh ffs foureyes, light the fcuk up you onion bajhee farting pansy.

Just cos you're fucking asian, it doesnt mean the whole world has to be extra sensitive to your colour and watch what they say or joke about. In fact, you're probably more racist than most of us cos it seems to bother you more and you think of 'race' more than us. What defines a 'racist' ? It's when that person sees the world through a pair of 'race'-tinted glasses. Everything's that going on in this world, or said to you has to go through your filter in that if it's racist, prejudiced, or stereotyped or not. Gawd, it must feel real miserably uptight being you.

I suggest you take a leaf out of ppl's books such as Anita, Asim, SingleRider, Ong, LeTallecWiz and probably even myself...by removing that pair of glasses and seeing the world how it should be seen....with the heart.

Do they care if someone makes a joke bout their race ? Especially on an internet website ? Do they fcuk.

Look around these boards and you'll notice, every now and then, ppl take the piss out of the Oirish. But do you see a huge, overly-dramatic tantrum thrown about ? Hell naw. Banter, rather than arguments, ensues instead.

My joke about onion bajhees may be a bit tasteless (blatantly a lie cos I find onion bajhees yummy) but there was in no way whatsoever, meant to be racist nor was it intended to insult. It's not my fault you took it the wrong way and made a big fuss out of it.

See what you've fcukign done. You made me try to write a long-winded post, which I've hardly done so for like a million years. My vocab's pretty limited and it makes it look incoherent.

*tries to use the excuse of a poor command of English language to get away out of a messy situation once again*
[/quote]

Sorry guys, but I don't see how the fuk anyone can't see that as being anything other than racially offensive. I work with three asians and a caribbean chap, and all of them found that shite offensive.
[/quote]

The ironic bit is that I'm fcuking Asian too.



[/quote]

It makes no difference to me you fucking retard. Your definition of racism was without a doubt the most distorted and intellectually challenged prose I have ever read on these forums. I made so very very clear that I found it offensive. You made it obvious that you knew I was Indian/Pakistani. You then harped on about onion fucking bhajees. I told you I found it offensive and you persisted with your racial wise cracks.

Now if you were somebody I got along with and had a laugh with about my skin colour that's different. I have had a laugh and joke with folks on this site about it and it's never been an issue. But you irritate and aggravate most people. You've been rude to me before on many occasions. It's blatantly fucking obvious it's not friendly banter when it's dribbling out of your mouth as opposed to someone I get on with.

You made a racist remark and continued to do so. If you think it's ok to do that in life by all means carry on, but it's wrong Roger. If you're Asian yourself, the time will come when the shoe is on the other foot and you experience it for yourself. Then, finally, the veil of ignorance you peek through at the moment may be lifted and you will see things differently.
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I can't be arsed to debate on racism because you don't know fcukall what I've been through as well.

Hey I spent a big bulk of my years growing up in UK as well and we both know what that's like when you belong to a minority race.

But you take things too seriously, especially over the net...so light the fcuk up.

Yeah, I admit I don't like you very much on this forum (maybe in the real world, I may like you) and have acted like a prick towards you and others on more than one occasion, but to call me a racist is well....sorry to disappoint you, is just untrue. Because I'm not racist. It's as simple as that.

You can try to prove me wrong but deep down in my heart, I know I'm not racist. How can I be racist when I've dated girls from all over the world, be it, blue, black, green or purple or whatever ?

Call me an imbecile, thick, rude, prick, whatever. But don't call me a racist cos I'm not.

And if the world gets offended so easily over onion bajhees, 'fcuking asians' and etc...you might as well all launch nuclear missiles at each other and stab one another to death, cos it's fcuking pointless anyways to live in this PC world.
 
[quote author=Paddy link=topic=24077.msg587110#msg587110 date=1212514199]
*comes back in from a day on the farm*

*eats spuds*

*takes off wellies*

*sticks on rerun of glenroe*
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You Irish are all the same.
 
[quote author=Buddha link=topic=24077.msg587115#msg587115 date=1212514640]
[quote author=Paddy link=topic=24077.msg587110#msg587110 date=1212514199]
*comes back in from a day on the farm*

*eats spuds*

*takes off wellies*

*sticks on rerun of glenroe*
[/quote]

You Irish are all the same.
[/quote]

Don't be so racist.
 
[quote author=Mr Moominpoops link=topic=24077.msg584884#msg584884 date=1212243670]
I expect Brendan and Oncy would just ride each other and the women would have a cuppa and a chat.

You'd still crack one off though Roger and why not? We're all adults here.
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You sir are a f*cking legend.

Ha ha ha ha brilliant!
 
[quote author=Whaddapie link=topic=24077.msg585087#msg585087 date=1212304743]
Ok. Fair enough.

A lot of well thought out and logical arguments from both sides on this one... That's what I was looking for, and expected.

IMHO, there's no right or wrong answer on this topic, or in most of the 'big', real life debates - It's just whatever works for the people themselves - Nobody knows what makes up another person.

Question for all the "It's just wrong" brigade, though: Your missus brings her beautiful college girlfriend home, after a girls night out and a few cocktails, and they both want to 'try something new' with you tonight.
Your wife is keen, her girlfriend's keen, and it's all up to you. No strings attached - She's going home tomorrow...

Same answer?
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If my wife asked for that it would be the end of us.
 
Paddy - Is it true you think I have horns? Because that's fucking wrong mate. Don't be like Livvy and make 'leek' jokes.
 
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=24077.msg587121#msg587121 date=1212514994]
Do you practise martial arts? ;D
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Both martial and marital.
 
[quote author=LeTallecWiz link=topic=24077.msg587125#msg587125 date=1212515223]
Paddy - Is it true you think I have horns? Because that's fucking wrong mate. Don't be like Livvy and make 'leek' jokes.
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You've completely lost me on that one.

*walks away in ignorance*
 
[quote author=foureyes link=topic=24077.msg586713#msg586713 date=1212495320]
[quote author=Roger REDerer link=topic=24077.msg586701#msg586701 date=1212494604]
[quote author=Spionkop69 link=topic=24077.msg586695#msg586695 date=1212494139]
*settles in comfy chair and opens family size bag of crisps*
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Would you like some onion bajhees instead ?

Ok ok...I better shut up. Sorry mods !
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i feel sorry for you thrush, i really do. I tried to be as careful as possible in the way i asked you to refrain from making racist remarks. Yes, they are racist and you're so catastrophically stupid that you persist with them? You are your own worst enemy.

i'm all for having a laugh about my skin colour and have done so with a few posters on this site. Its all a bit of harmless fun. Until its thrown at me with malice or as an insult, which it was. I politely asked you to refrain and you cant stop. Its racist. That makes you a racist. All your own work. Well done.
[/quote]

What?

Your a chocolate man?
 
[quote author=LeTallecWiz link=topic=24077.msg587125#msg587125 date=1212515223]
Paddy - Is it true you think I have horns? Because that's fucking wrong mate. Don't be like Livvy and make 'leek' jokes.
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What? Like because your from the holy land you might be connected to Satan somehow?
 
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