It's ok, everyone thinks I'm irrelevant or something these days, according to the self appointed voice of the people, so I would read too much into his definition of "everyone".
Usually he means himself and one of the bots that lurks on here in the early hours.
Fine, your intention wasn't, but the effect is. The effect always is in such contexts. Make a note of it.
It's the idea they made the fortune together that gets me. So the raising of children and bringing in millions as a PL manager is an equal contribution?
It's a laughable interpretation. Anyone can see it.
Except the law it would seem.
I guess, Mors, they'd look at things like how long they were together, what possible career prospects and therefore future earning potential she or he gave up, whether there are kids involved, their ages, what were the circumstances of the breakup, why does it need to go to court for someone external to make a judgement..... I dunno.... difficult to quantify and piece together things that require someone with half a brain and no emotional or financial stake in it all to have a think about.
At a guess....
But what she puts into it has almost no bearing on what *he* earns!!!
And common sense.... or anywhere in fact, other than Peter's head.
Well we know Jack shit about it, his wife could be a bitch, he could have been in a marriage where it was already agreed between both partners that it was at it's end, whatever the semantics of it, there's alot of posters taking a convenient stance over this when they know fuck all.
Amazing that most of you are old enough and long in the tooth enough to know that relationships are a two way street and slightly more complicated than who fucked who over first, but if it fits the agenda.
I think he means all the people who've told me I'm wrong then forget to reply to my subsequent rebuttal.
You seem to be of the opinion that marriage, or in this case, the role of the wife, is akin to some sort external contractor providing a set range of services fir which they should be remunerated for on a set rate.
That's beyond ridiculous,l.
Wasn't it you who said recently to someone (Ryan, maybe), it's ok to be wrong and admit such from time to time. Better than continuing to defend a position that seems completely illogical.
Marriage, or their life, is more like a cake - they both baked it together, added the various ingredients so that the outcome is the sum total of what they both put in to it.
Now she, rightly gets to make an argument for what slice of the cake she's entitled to.
You seem to be of the opinion that marriage, or in this case, the role of the wife, is akin to some sort external contractor providing a set range of services fir which they should be remunerated for on a set rate.
That's beyond ridiculous,l.
Wasn't it you who said recently to someone (Ryan, maybe), it's ok to be wrong and admit such from time to time. Better than continuing to defend a position that seems completely illogical.
Marriage, or their life, is more like a cake - they both baked it together, added the various ingredients so that the outcome is the sum total of what they both put in to it.
Now she, rightly gets to make an argument for what slice of the cake she's entitled to.
Well, I can't really put it any other way than that I disagree. The irony seems to me that you and others accuse me of seeing things through a purely financial lens when I'd argue that it's the other way round.
A marriage is not a partnership formed in order to make money and accumulate capital. That just seems so obvious to me that I hardly know what else to add to it. But still: IMO it's a partnership formed to celebrate a human relationship, to demonstrate commitment, and very often to provide a loving shelter for the raising of children. What the two parties earn during the marriage seems wholly incidental, to me. It's not the purpose of the union and it's not the product of the union, either.
I think it's right and just that on a marriage ending each party should be assured of appropriate compensation for any financially deleterious effects of the marriage. But I don't think one of the parties should be entitled to a kind of 'profit on investment' and 'annual dividend' that seems to me a reasonable description of the kind of awards that will be due to Mrs Rodgers for the simple fact that she was canny enough to marry a man with very high earning potential.
It just doesn't really seem to be an obvious moral conclusion.
Which is about as useful as saying that you disagree with me because you disagree.
I'm not quite sure what you're after here Peter. A pat on the head? Some recognition that you do indeed have an opinion? Internet kudos?
No one agrees with you. How else do you want this dressed up?
Well, I can't really put it any other way than that I disagree. The irony seems to me that you and others accuse me of seeing things through a purely financial lens when I'd argue that it's the other way round.
A marriage is not a partnership formed in order to make money and accumulate capital. That just seems so obvious to me that I hardly know what else to add to it. But still: IMO it's a partnership formed to celebrate a human relationship, to demonstrate commitment, and very often to provide a loving shelter for the raising of children. What the two parties earn during the marriage seems wholly incidental, to me. It's not the purpose of the union and it's not the product of the union, either.
I think it's right and just that on a marriage ending each party should be assured of appropriate compensation for any financially deleterious effects of the marriage. But I don't think one of the parties should be entitled to a kind of 'profit on investment' and 'annual dividend' that seems to me a reasonable description of the kind of awards that will be due to Mrs Rodgers for the simple fact that she was canny enough to marry a man with very high earning potential.
It just doesn't really seem to be an obvious moral conclusion.
Sometimes the only agenda here feels like you constant attempt to jump any any comment that is in any way anything other than positive about Rodgers.
People are just expressing lots about their own perceptions of marriage, relationships, family, etc being an incredibly complex thing - except maybe for Peter.
Of course none us know what happened - which is probably why no one has said "oh she deserves every penny".
Most are outlining nothing more than possible reasons as to what case she might have - the pair of them couldn't figure it out by themselves- so it's off to court.
I think he means all the people who've told me I'm wrong then forget to reply to my subsequent rebuttal.
That divorce pay-out in full:
Susan Rogers: 20%
Mark: 30%