Horrible Cheating Bastard

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552162#msg552162 date=1209210352]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552155#msg552155 date=1209209867]
you don't seem the kind of lad that can live with the guilt.

So you'll probably end up becoming distant and finishing it eventually anyway.[/quote]

No, you have a valid argument.

I hope it won't happen, but I've done exactly this in the past.
[/quote]

I've had it done to me and seen my friends do to ex's.

You have to ask yourself two tough questions.

Do you really want to stay with her.

If the answer is yes, then you have to decide can you live with the idea that she might

not want you if you come clean.

Furthermore if you want to keep her and have no more guilt, honesty is the only way.

I've seen girls who love the honesty route. They are so used to guys lying and cheating

that when one does it and comes clean they actually think they are lucky to have an honest one.

If you don't see a long term future then why the guilt?

Just break up.

 

[robinhood]

[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552158#msg552158 date=1209210099]

I've mates that cheat all the time and no quilt at all. Never understood that.

[/quote]

I know. Don't the girls complain of the cold?

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552171#msg552171 date=1209210843]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552158#msg552158 date=1209210099]

I've mates that cheat all the time and no quilt at all. Never understood that.

[/quote]

I know. Don't the girls complain of the cold?
[/quote]

Ok if this a joke at my expense just went right over my head.......

Ha ha ok seen it now.

Ha ha my f*cking typing is cat!

Guilt god damn it!

Although it isnt a bad idea if your gonna cheat to keep the quilt clean and fresh!

 

[robinhood]

Patrick, I can't tell her. For two reasons:

1. She's a nice, sweet and sensitive person and it would really hurt her.
2. She'd hate me for being such a ridiculous idiot.

When it comes to it I probably just don't deserve her anyway. She's a pixie and I'm a toad.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552180#msg552180 date=1209211383]
Patrick, I can't tell her. For two reasons:

1. She's a nice, sweet and sensitive person and it would really hurt her.
2. She'd hate me for being such a ridiculous idiot.

When it comes to it I probably just don't deserve her anyway. She's a pixie and I'm a toad.
[/quote]

Ok so whats the alternative, treat her badly for next 2 months because you feel like you don't deserve her. All the time making her feel like crap because she doesn't understand "why you've changed, and become distant".

She'll end up blaming herself and take even longer to trust another guy all the time pinning over you.

Plus your forgetting the fact its a small island she will probably find out.

And if nothing else by coming clean you feel alot better about yourself.

 

[robinhood]

But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.

 

[HC]

Hah, unless theres any chance that the other lass knows your girlfriend keep quiet, Robin.

If there's a chance that this other girl will let it slip when lashed or something, then best get in first.

anyways, you've got to do something really good to outweigh the bad, not too good, else she'll give the textbook ' Why are you being like this, what have you done!?' But cha know, just enough, to balance things out a bit.

 

[Avmenon]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

To be honest its a tough one because your not enough of a cnut.

What I mean by that is, you can cheat but you cant live with the guilt.

So you eat yourself up over it.

Plus your going to always be worried she will find out.

Its a no win situation.

Now I remember you saying before that women in general annoy you, so maybe

your just being hit with the intial guilt, but if it happened last week too?

If you can't tell her then you'll have to break up with her.

You can make up 101 excuses for this.

" I'm too young"

" I want to be single"

"I'm thinking of moving to Australia"

" I think I might be gay" Always works!

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

He will mean it. She won't forgive him unless she's an idiot and thus will fall into the category of women he hates.

 

[robinhood]

I've just looked in the mirror.

I've got bite marks on both sides where the neck meets the shoulder.

I'm fucked.

 

[robinhood]

Did I say that women in general annoy me?

Really?

I was probably annoyed with one for some reason.

 

[HC]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552203#msg552203 date=1209212685]
I've just looked in the mirror.

I've got bite marks on both sides where the neck meets the shoulder.

I'm fucked.
[/quote]

Hah, erm I've got a bit of expierence with that, during my not so good days.

Use a brush on them, it makes the blood vessels like spread out or something and reduces the marking, you need to do it ( the brushing the pretty hard)

 

[robinhood]

I'll give it a go in a bit.

Right now I'm going back to bed to wallow in self-pity.

 

[valley boyo]

dont tell her and if she ever finds out then put the blame onto her, say something like she wasn't showing you enough love and you felt unwanted

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552205#msg552205 date=1209212809]
Did I say that women in general annoy me?

Really?

I was probably annoyed with one for some reason.
[/quote]

I think it was the 1m or the perfect woman and yourself and Ross commented on the fact that most women piss you off because you find them largely stupid or annoying.

Might have just been your mood at the time.

Bite marks?

Your f*cked unless by some bizarre coincedence you've been sporting some fashionable polo necks of late.

 

[Marquis]

[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

Finally some sense in this thread.

Cheaters only tell for 2 reasons.
a) they got/or are about to get caught
b) they feel guilty.

 

[Rosco]

I think it's fair to say Robin falls into both categories Marquis.

Robin, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Grow a set and get on with things.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552224#msg552224 date=1209213863]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

Finally some sense in this thread.

Cheaters only tell for 2 reasons.
a) they got/or are about to get caught
b) they feel guilty.


[/quote]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.

 

[Marquis]

[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.

[/quote]

You wouldn't do it in the first place.

 

[Rosco]

[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552257#msg552257 date=1209216076]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.

[/quote]

You wouldn't do it in the first place.


[/quote]

hahahahaha

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552257#msg552257 date=1209216076]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.

[/quote]

You wouldn't do it in the first place.


[/quote]

I would never say never, but I would like to think I never will.

But if I did I'd come clean.

Don't the crime and all that jazz.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Rosco link=topic=22938.msg552258#msg552258 date=1209216103]
[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552257#msg552257 date=1209216076]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.

[/quote]

You wouldn't do it in the first place.


[/quote]

hahahahaha
[/quote]

Cheeky fucker.

Me single and me in a relationship are polar opposites.

 

[Marquis]

[quote author=Rosco link=topic=22938.msg552258#msg552258 date=1209216103]
[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552257#msg552257 date=1209216076]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.

[/quote]

You wouldn't do it in the first place.


[/quote]

hahahahaha
[/quote]

We need a tongue in cheek smiley.

 

[Avmenon]

[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]
[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552224#msg552224 date=1209213863]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

Finally some sense in this thread.

Cheaters only tell for 2 reasons.
a) they got/or are about to get caught
b) they feel guilty.


[/quote]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.


[/quote]

No,it's not.

It's right for you since it removes your guilt.

But all you're doing is hurting your girlfriend.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552315#msg552315 date=1209217647]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]
[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552224#msg552224 date=1209213863]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

Finally some sense in this thread.

Cheaters only tell for 2 reasons.
a) they got/or are about to get caught
b) they feel guilty.


[/quote]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.


[/quote]

No,it's not.

It's right for you since it removes your guilt.

But all you're doing is hurting your girlfriend.
[/quote]

Not at all.

Letting her live a lie is worse in the long run.

More of damaging effect.

 

[HC]

[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552320#msg552320 date=1209217784]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552315#msg552315 date=1209217647]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]
[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552224#msg552224 date=1209213863]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

Finally some sense in this thread.

Cheaters only tell for 2 reasons.
a) they got/or are about to get caught
b) they feel guilty.


[/quote]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.


[/quote]

No,it's not.

It's right for you since it removes your guilt.

But all you're doing is hurting your girlfriend.
[/quote]

Not at all.

Letting her live a lie is worse in the long run.

More of damaging effect.


[/quote]
How is it?

If you can garuntee that it'll never come out, that's far better for her sake than you coming out clean.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Hardcastle link=topic=22938.msg552329#msg552329 date=1209218177]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552320#msg552320 date=1209217784]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552315#msg552315 date=1209217647]
[quote author=Dreambeliever link=topic=22938.msg552256#msg552256 date=1209216000]
[quote author=Marquis link=topic=22938.msg552224#msg552224 date=1209213863]
[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552197#msg552197 date=1209212252]
[quote author=robinhood link=topic=22938.msg552192#msg552192 date=1209211973]
But she wants me to see her tonight. I can't just tell her. I haven't got the heart.

But you could easily be right about the "distant" thing. I've done that before; when you can't shag her like you mean it because you can't shake the guilt.

But please don't tell me that the only way forward is to tell her.

I can't.
[/quote]

DO NOT TELL HER.

When she finds out,(and she will)...you'll just have to say you're sorry.

And mean it.
[/quote]

Finally some sense in this thread.

Cheaters only tell for 2 reasons.
a) they got/or are about to get caught
b) they feel guilty.


[/quote]

I would tell because its the right thing to do.


[/quote]

No,it's not.

It's right for you since it removes your guilt.

But all you're doing is hurting your girlfriend.
[/quote]

Not at all.

Letting her live a lie is worse in the long run.

More of damaging effect.


[/quote]
How is it?

If you can garuntee that it'll never come out, that's far better for her sake than you coming out clean.
[/quote]

Ha ha ha exactly.

How can you guarantee it unless the other person dies and it nobody saw it happen.

You can never guarantee it.

 

[Avmenon]

Yes,and when she finds out and if she confronts you about it, you tell the truth like a man and ask for her forgiveness.

If she doesn't, then it's deserved.

If she does, then you're lucky.

She may forgive your cock, she won't forgive your brain for confessing your guilt with the fucking bite marks staring her in the face.

 

[Dreambeliever]

[quote author=Avmenon link=topic=22938.msg552350#msg552350 date=1209218907]
Yes,and when she finds out and if she confronts you about it, you tell the truth like a man and ask for her forgiveness.

If she doesn't, then it's deserved.

If she does, then you're lucky.

She may forgive your cock, she won't forgive your brain for confessing your guilt with the fucking bite marks staring her in the face.
[/quote]

Ah ye English guys crack me up.

Forgive your cock. Classic.