The problem with him is that he thinks he's better than he is and always feels the need to explain away things.
He's found another ingenious strategy: he claims Klopp keeps convincing him he's better than he is. So it's Klopp's fault.
He is drawn; drawn to go back, to the apartment block in Karlovac where the Lovrens lived; mum, dad, two boys, on £250 per month. He’ll climb stairs to the third floor and hope the tenants don’t mind. In his old flat, in the tiny bedroom that was his, does the table remain?
He sat at that table every night doing homework — a C student whose mum made him graft. Do better than me, she’d say. She worked a supermarket checkout. Dad painted houses.
Dejan reckons he was 12, 13. One evening he wrote on the table’s underside: “I am Dejan Lovren. I will succeed in my life as a football player.” “I believed it,” says Lovren, “and I wrote it, ‘I will be one of the best players in football. I will succeed,’” with the date. “I’m 100% that table is still there. I’ll go this summer to ask if I can go inside and see it.”
That boyhood mission statement felt far off in Lovren’s most recent game, where he lost aerial jousts with Romelu Lukaku leading to Manchester United’s goals in a 2-1 defeat. It also seemed distant in October at Wembley, when he was substituted 31 minutes into Liverpool’s 4-1 loss to Tottenham.
Critics highlight those games, but there has been more to Lovren’s season and over risotto at an Italian restaurant in Aigburth, near his south Liverpool home, he speaks frankly about his football and his remarkable life. A picture emerges, of a strong character and strong player who feels strong emotions. In moments, all that gets enveloped by clouds.
At Wembley, two more mistakes under high balls led to two goals. When his number went up he was “surprised. Walking off was s***. I’d never been in that situation. I was so close to kicking all the bottles over [at pitch-side]. But then I saw all the faces looking at me and said, ‘Nah, I’m still a gentleman.’
“Life has taught me there are worse things . . . but against Everton [after their controversial penalty earned a draw at Anfield] I took a bottle and smashed it against the wall. Same ref, similar decisions [in the United defeat]. Football should be fair…”
Jurgen Klopp manages him brilliantly. “Well, not when he took me out at Spurs. Then, I was fuming,” Lovren laughs. “But after, when we spoke. It took a couple of days then he invited me into his room. I wanted answers but he said positive things. He said, ‘If you just think about yourself like I think about you, you will be one of the best players in the world.’
“You know maybe, it’s sometimes just . . . ” Lovren pauses, “. . . just my self-confidence disappears in some moments. And he believes in me, you know? And I believe in him. Sometimes, I’m a person who thinks ‘Ah, I’m really good.’ But other times I think, ‘Ah, I did that. I’m not good enough.’ He says always be level, but it’s difficult. You have sometimes self-confidence, sometimes not; sometimes good moods, sometimes not.”
After United it was Klopp who wanted answers. They spoke about body language. He’s trying to change his: “I should be one of the examples on the pitch. Not [slumps]. Maybe players will look at me like the manager looks at me, if they see me positive on the pitch — like a second leader after Hendo [Jordan Henderson].”
The challenges he lost against Lukaku? “He’s a strong guy, physically one of the toughest, for his age unbelievable. Sometimes you get it right — and many games, I won against him — but sometimes you lose. Mistakes happen.”
There is a fundamental misunderstanding of Liverpool’s defending strategy that does not help Lovren. The errors against Spurs and United involved him stepping towards the ball positively. Three were high up the pitch. Klopp wants those gambles, those risky challenges — because gegenpressing involves stealing ball, surprising opponents in areas where Liverpool can counterattack.
Lovren is a front-foot defender, and Klopp needs one. He couldn’t have two calm, purring, Virgil van Dijks. Says Lovren: “Man United defenders: sitting, waiting. We have a different style of football. We need to apply high pressure and it’s a challenge for a defender.”
Pundits scoffed that he should have dropped off Lukaku. “They can say that, but they’re not hearing what the manager says. If he wants me high, I am high. This is what we do. It is a risk — but then see how many goals we score after winning the ball.”
An unpopular opinion: Lovren has had a good season. Spurs and United were his only defeats — Liverpool have lost two games in 32 with him and four in 12 without him. “Everyone makes mistakes, but I play one bad game in 18 and everyone says, ‘Look, look, look.’ Why? I don’t deserve that,” Lovren says. “People don’t see me in the ‘small’ games. They see 5-0 against Porto but nobody sees my part.”
Does it get him down? “No. It’s a challenge. A personality challenge. After a mistake, are you ready to move on?” At United he dusted himself off to play a big second half and “I did it straightaway after Spurs when I was in that record of 18 games unbeaten. Big players don’t need six or seven games; big players in the next game prove you wrong. But some people don’t care about that Dejan. They’re just searching for the next mistake.”
His life has been a personality challenge. Last year he made a moving documentary about it and one day he’ll write a book. The Lovrens are Bosnian Croats who fled to Munich during the Bosnian War. Dejan was three. Seven years later, denied German residency, the family left for Karlovac, a town in central Croatia — and for him that was the toughest time. Teased at school for his Bosnian accent, he remembers an older, bigger boy chasing him back to his apartment block and up the stairs — the bully gave up on the second floor. “I had a beautiful childhood but from my parents’ point of view, imagine having to say to your kids, ‘We need to run today.’ With no money, just two bags. But through all the difficult situations they never showed the pain. They always showed the love,” Lovren reflects.
Karlovac was an “ordeal” for several years. “Football took my feelings away. I would think about football. I knew I had something I could do with my life.”
He supports the charity Help Refugees, wearing their T-shirt; it says “Choose Love.” He wants compassion and help for those fleeing Syria and conflicts in Africa. “People don’t have a choice. If staying was a choice, 100% they’ll stay. People stayed in Bosnia and got killed. I don’t understand people who [resent refugees] going to Turkey, Croatia, France, coming to the UK. What else to do with them? They are also humans.”
Manchester City is the kind of Champions League draw Lovren wanted. “We expect a lot of ourselves. We feel we can reach out all the way to the final,” he says. “Any big team who likes to play . . . and we like to press . . . we can beat them. We don’t like defensive teams.”
Van Dijk is great to partner: “Virg? When you add quality to your team it is power. Jurgen made a good choice. Virg is still adapting but next season he will fly. I like our combination. He’s a great lad. He’s calm, but he’s not calm when I beat him in basketball. When it comes to basketball, he needs to learn.”
So Lovren is No 1 when players shoot hoops in the gym? “I am the champion,” he confirms. “Joel [Matip] should be good. He’s so tall. But he has not the right technique. You know who is worst? Joe Gomez. He takes the shot like a throw-in. I said, ‘Get out.’ I said, ‘You look like [Michael] Jordan but you are doing throw-ins.’”