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Thomas Hitzlsperger coming out of the closet

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[article=http://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/football/news/thomas-hitzlsperger-gay-live-reaction-3000380#ixzz2po56F0g5 ]Former Premier League star Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out of the closet.

The ex-Everton, Aston Villa and West Ham midfielder becomes the first major footballer to be openly homosexual, and follows in the path of the less-famous Anton Hysen, Robbie Rogers and Justin Fashanu as footballers who have come out.

In an interview with Zeit in Germany, Der Hammer declared that he wants to begin a debate on homosexuality in sport.

"I am talking about being gay because I want to move forward the discussion about homosexuality among professional sports stars," he said, admitting that realising that he was gay was "a long and difficult process."

Hitzlsperger's brave decision has come just three months after retiring from the professional game.

The German, a veteran of 52 international caps, spent last year at Everton under David Moyes but only featured seven times due to a raft of injuries.

He told Zeit magazine that homosexuality is "simply ignored" in football.

"Homosexuality isn't a serious topic for discussion in England, Germany or Italy - at least not in the dressing room."

"It is only in the last few years I have realised I would rather live with a man," reveals Hitzlperger in his interview with Zeit - perhaps explaining why he has waited until after his career to reveal his sexuality.

Interestingly he also discusses an interview given in summer 2012 when a gay Bundesliga footballer gave an interview under the condition of anonymity.

Asked about it he said: "I've read it and in most of the answers there isn't anything that hasn't been speculated about: He has a girlfriend for the sake of appearances, leads a double live and is scared about the reaction of fans.

"The main thing which surprised me was that he'd told his team mates - without negative repercussions. If it could carry on that way, that would be great."

When asked whether it is a theme the media ignores while at the same time being on the hunt for the first gay international, Hitzlsperger gives an interesting reply:

"It is a private matter, but when even the Chancellor [Angela Merkel] comments on it, it does seem to have some import."

Hitzlsperger then poses a counter question to Zeit: "If a player came to you asking to be outed, would you refuse? That would be a sensation!"

Frankly, you get the impression that the footballing world is just relieved that a player finally felt they could talk about this in the open.

In a 2012 Q&A that Thomas gave to Zeit, he also talked about homosexuality in football.

Asked whether coming out really would be dangerous for a player or whether the warnings are simply alarmist, Hitzlsperger replied: "I don't know, it's speculation. It probably also depends on who comes out and how.

"In either case the sporting worst case is a possibility: the end of their career. An openly gay footballer would have to be prepared for that.

"He should not let himself be guided by what other people think and say about him. On the other hand he could also become a great role model for gay sports stars and also for other people who haven't yet been able to deal with their homosexuality openly.

Talking about the potential reaction from fans he said: "Fans are very complex - you have all ages from all walks of life in stadium. That's why you can't rule any reaction out. But I think for the vast majority it probably wouldn't be a problem."[/article]

A "news" that actually should not be a news.

anton hysen official @antonhysenoffic
Just want to take a moment & say GOOD JOB Thomas Hitzlsperger!! very proud over what youve done. Extremely good for football!

John Amaechi OBE ✔ @JohnAmaechi
Congratulations to Thomas Hitzelsperger - welcome to the club!

The irony is this happened on the same day:

Julien Laurens @LaurensJulien
Alas at same time PSG's Alex says of homosexuality on French TV: God would've created not Adam and Eve but Adam and Yves (French boy's name)
 
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The hammer obviously, not Alex and his fantastically troglodyte view
 
But players need to come out early in their careers rather than retiring before coming out. That would desensitise everyone to the idea that gay people play football too- big deal, lets move on.
 
But players need to come out early in their careers rather than retiring before coming out. That would desensitise everyone to the idea that gay people play football too- big deal, lets move on.
Yup.

Seems to be getting talked about more though. Soon, I think someone will come out while still playing at top level.
 
Let's have someone on SCM "come out" to celebrate this momentous occasion.

Any takers?
 
That this is 'news' shows how far football still has to go. It's a strange parallel universe where normal societal rules don't seem to apply.
 
its hardly a surprise so few will say they are gay. Look at how much intrusion into their private life they get already!
 
wait - gays play football!?!? first women, now gays?!?!? what next, blacks and jews?

The real news would be someone like Messi having the op and being made to play with the Ladies. Anything less and I'm not arsed.
 
That this is 'news' shows how far football still has to go. It's a strange parallel universe where normal societal rules don't seem to apply.


I dunno that Daley lad was in the news a lot too.

In terms of fucks given when someone comes out I think it goes something like this:

Football -> Sport -> Celebrity -> Real Life
loads lots some none
 
Let's have someone on SCM "come out" to celebrate this momentous occasion.

Any takers?
I had my suspicions about you actually. Then you told me that story about your visit to Cardiff and all bets were off. 😉

I really like the film 'The Notebook'. I'm thinking of buying a telescope and I wear Tom Ford glasses (and aftershave) - That's a bit gay isn't it?
 
I had my suspicions about you actually. Then you told me that story about your visit to Cardiff and all bets were off. 😉

I really like the film 'The Notebook'. I'm thinking of buying a telescope and I wear Tom Ford glasses (and aftershave) - That's a bit gay isn't it?

He told you the story about being in bed with his brother and that changed your mind?
 
Oh yes he is brave announcing it after he retires. Just like Gareth Edwards did


To help remove the stigma do it whilst still playing.
 
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