He was a cunt by anyones standards though, but not seen by others that didn't understand or see how much of a cunt he actually was..
Cancer, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy to be fair, he detoriated quite rapidly.. I spent the last week or so visiting him in the local hospice, as I felt it was the right thing to do.. There was never any connection or close feeling to my Dad, I spent years, if anything being embarrassed by him..
Last contact was him asking for a copy of my Mother's Death certificate after her funeral so he could marry his current partner... I had to give it to him, as my mother had no will, so all her money was left to him, as they where still married.. I had to get him to sign documents via legal channels to hand it over... that and some of my mothers possessions he wanted was the bargaining chip..
My Dad was terrible with money so their was huge fear in the family he would claim this money for himself, despite the fact he had not seen my mother for over 15 years.. He had history with this...
My mother fell ill 25 years ago, later diagnosed with Dementia, when we informed doctors her original diagnosis Schizophrenia was wrong because my Dad failed to tell them the truth. He used to knock her about repeatedly..
I looked at it hypothetically, though what goes around, comes around. His cancer was natures way of payback, for all those years of him being such a cunt..
I don't feel any grief, am I weird like? If anything I just feel the anger mainly at the hypocrites in my family that have spent years berating him, but now look for sympathy because he has died.
I fucking hate Facebook.. Its just a tool for attention seekers..
Cancer, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy to be fair, he detoriated quite rapidly.. I spent the last week or so visiting him in the local hospice, as I felt it was the right thing to do.. There was never any connection or close feeling to my Dad, I spent years, if anything being embarrassed by him..
Last contact was him asking for a copy of my Mother's Death certificate after her funeral so he could marry his current partner... I had to give it to him, as my mother had no will, so all her money was left to him, as they where still married.. I had to get him to sign documents via legal channels to hand it over... that and some of my mothers possessions he wanted was the bargaining chip..
My Dad was terrible with money so their was huge fear in the family he would claim this money for himself, despite the fact he had not seen my mother for over 15 years.. He had history with this...
My mother fell ill 25 years ago, later diagnosed with Dementia, when we informed doctors her original diagnosis Schizophrenia was wrong because my Dad failed to tell them the truth. He used to knock her about repeatedly..
I looked at it hypothetically, though what goes around, comes around. His cancer was natures way of payback, for all those years of him being such a cunt..
I don't feel any grief, am I weird like? If anything I just feel the anger mainly at the hypocrites in my family that have spent years berating him, but now look for sympathy because he has died.
I fucking hate Facebook.. Its just a tool for attention seekers..
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