I have custody of my two children and have for about ten years. I live with my loving Fiancee who is as good as there mother..
At my eldest Daughter request the biological mother has just started seeing them again..
She is like something off Jeremy Kyle.. has another two kids, married to a fella who isn't the father of her two kids, and she has another one on the way.
Her husbands ex has 7 kids, two of which are his and they also live with him and my ex. My ex's ex (who she has two kids too) has another kid with his current ex girlfriend, and last I heard lives in the YMCA
At first when she started seeing them all was going smoothly, however over the last few months she has been an absolute pain in the backside.. cancelling seeing the kids because she is has been ill due to this pregnancy.. Ok fair enough.. On top of that to get her to call the kids over the past year I have had to constantly prompt her to do so, she is also generally argumentative about anything to do with the kids.. pays no maintenance (lives of the state), etc etc
She seems to think I am hell bent on stopping her seeing the kids, which is the exact opposite I am encouraging her more so.. to see them. Problem is she tends to favour the Eldest over my youngest who is special needs.
She came out of hospital last week, with a Gaul stone problem and currently on crutches. However did not stop her turning up at her daughters Nativity play last night, which involved walking around the school for a good 2 1/2 hours.
Anyway her husband has been in touch stating all arrangements regarding the kids should be done through him.. as they have done this with her other ex she has two kids to because of her pregnancy and not being well. I've said 'I admire you have your wife's best interests at heart but no chance, Sorry I have no problem you picking them up but all arrangements should be done through your wife (the kids mother) and myself. I appreciate she is not well n that but she is the mother and I'm sure her illness does not stop her from picking up the phone to have a five minute chat with myself and the kids.
I got nothing but abusive language, accused of stopping her from seeing the kids which later was rebuffed and now being accused of Blackmailing her...
Fucking waste of space.. honestly
Oh and her husband is an Everton Supporter
what do I do ?
At my eldest Daughter request the biological mother has just started seeing them again..
She is like something off Jeremy Kyle.. has another two kids, married to a fella who isn't the father of her two kids, and she has another one on the way.
Her husbands ex has 7 kids, two of which are his and they also live with him and my ex. My ex's ex (who she has two kids too) has another kid with his current ex girlfriend, and last I heard lives in the YMCA
At first when she started seeing them all was going smoothly, however over the last few months she has been an absolute pain in the backside.. cancelling seeing the kids because she is has been ill due to this pregnancy.. Ok fair enough.. On top of that to get her to call the kids over the past year I have had to constantly prompt her to do so, she is also generally argumentative about anything to do with the kids.. pays no maintenance (lives of the state), etc etc
She seems to think I am hell bent on stopping her seeing the kids, which is the exact opposite I am encouraging her more so.. to see them. Problem is she tends to favour the Eldest over my youngest who is special needs.
She came out of hospital last week, with a Gaul stone problem and currently on crutches. However did not stop her turning up at her daughters Nativity play last night, which involved walking around the school for a good 2 1/2 hours.
Anyway her husband has been in touch stating all arrangements regarding the kids should be done through him.. as they have done this with her other ex she has two kids to because of her pregnancy and not being well. I've said 'I admire you have your wife's best interests at heart but no chance, Sorry I have no problem you picking them up but all arrangements should be done through your wife (the kids mother) and myself. I appreciate she is not well n that but she is the mother and I'm sure her illness does not stop her from picking up the phone to have a five minute chat with myself and the kids.
I got nothing but abusive language, accused of stopping her from seeing the kids which later was rebuffed and now being accused of Blackmailing her...
Fucking waste of space.. honestly
Oh and her husband is an Everton Supporter
what do I do ?
