Picture this... A woman I know has only just recently started seeing her Kids again after a near ten year absence, is now popping out another sometime soon...
Whats wrong with that you ask.. ?
This particular woman lives in a three bedroom house with 4 kids in the roughest place you can live, which includes another 2 kids from her last failed relationship one of which is borderline ADHD. Her new husband has his two kids now living with them, which indecently is from his ex-partner who has 7 kids in total.
Oh and her ex partner is now living in the YMCA has just recently split up with his girlfriend who he also has kid to..
NON OF THESE FUCKERS WORK OR OFFICIALLY WORK FFS... and is prime example is what is wrong with modern day society!!!
In the meantime at the other end her ex-husband and partner struggle to bring up her two other kids whilst both working and only receive £5 a week maintenance from her. One of the children is disabled, complex special needs even, however this woman carries on popping them out like they are going out of fashion, as if that does not matter.
The truth is this devoted couple are going to spend the rest of their lives caring for this 'special' needs child, it is not something they resent, far from it as they dearly love her. They just resent the fact that this woman who is their childrens mother carries on with her life without any consideration for the difficulties presented to the couple bringing up her current status quo.
The ex-husband's partner puts it as (although she does not resent it for one minute) 'feels her life has been put on hold in terms of marriage and having kids of her own as she helps to raise her disabled daughter'. You can see where she is coming from with that. However she feels 'deeply privileged to mother these children'
Things like this make me so fucking angry it really does, the eldest daughter turned round to her father the other night, 'If anything happens to you two later on life, its going to be me raising my sister, isn't it? The father said reluctantly 'most probably, but I am sure there will be support around you to help you if that ever became the case, all the more reason why we have to stick together as a family now'. The father would also like to think that his eldest would be always there for her sister in the long term. However, it makes him so sad.. his daughter has a decent relationship with her mother, but in his daughters own words 'she is not someone I can see as a role model'
Sad, it really is, the father is so glad though its him and his partner raising them, albeit the difficulties they have faced, the memories of the good times make you understand why we want kids in the first place. They arguably give you purpose in life. He is also thankful for the bleesing of having children and dreads to think how they would of turned out if they where still with their mother, he really does.
Whats wrong with that you ask.. ?
This particular woman lives in a three bedroom house with 4 kids in the roughest place you can live, which includes another 2 kids from her last failed relationship one of which is borderline ADHD. Her new husband has his two kids now living with them, which indecently is from his ex-partner who has 7 kids in total.
Oh and her ex partner is now living in the YMCA has just recently split up with his girlfriend who he also has kid to..
NON OF THESE FUCKERS WORK OR OFFICIALLY WORK FFS... and is prime example is what is wrong with modern day society!!!
In the meantime at the other end her ex-husband and partner struggle to bring up her two other kids whilst both working and only receive £5 a week maintenance from her. One of the children is disabled, complex special needs even, however this woman carries on popping them out like they are going out of fashion, as if that does not matter.
The truth is this devoted couple are going to spend the rest of their lives caring for this 'special' needs child, it is not something they resent, far from it as they dearly love her. They just resent the fact that this woman who is their childrens mother carries on with her life without any consideration for the difficulties presented to the couple bringing up her current status quo.
The ex-husband's partner puts it as (although she does not resent it for one minute) 'feels her life has been put on hold in terms of marriage and having kids of her own as she helps to raise her disabled daughter'. You can see where she is coming from with that. However she feels 'deeply privileged to mother these children'
Things like this make me so fucking angry it really does, the eldest daughter turned round to her father the other night, 'If anything happens to you two later on life, its going to be me raising my sister, isn't it? The father said reluctantly 'most probably, but I am sure there will be support around you to help you if that ever became the case, all the more reason why we have to stick together as a family now'. The father would also like to think that his eldest would be always there for her sister in the long term. However, it makes him so sad.. his daughter has a decent relationship with her mother, but in his daughters own words 'she is not someone I can see as a role model'
Sad, it really is, the father is so glad though its him and his partner raising them, albeit the difficulties they have faced, the memories of the good times make you understand why we want kids in the first place. They arguably give you purpose in life. He is also thankful for the bleesing of having children and dreads to think how they would of turned out if they where still with their mother, he really does.
