Hi Everyone
This is gonna sound kind of strange but I am in need of some advice and I would prefer it came from those of you who are English or Asian descent to get various viewpoints.
I grew up in an English town that is nearly 100% english white and therefore I could be described as an Asian bloke of 33 years old who is 1/4 Asian, 1/4 Islamic, and 1/2 white conservative english - i.e. in mind. I have always been a good boy/man for most of my life and my parents are increasingly pressurising me to get married after looking for the last 3 years here in England. Obviously they have been looking for my own asian background kind i.e. Bengali.
I am no longer a looker of any kind anymore like I was in my 20's, still fit and athletic, but you know like footballers when we reach 30+ you get the odd facial wrinkle and so and so. The girls I have seen don't even turn me on at all, I would go as far as saying they make me want to cry - but here lies the problem, some are a bit over the top Islamic and therfore you cannot put a foot wrong, or they are not what you would call respectfull enough to understand their duties as a wife. So I don't know what to do - and of course there are girls I liked who don't like me because they don't fancy me.
The other option I have is to get a designer bride from Bangladesh who is educated in English and some other proffession, I can have a great pick and I am pretty much guaranteed that they will be a good wife. However, been bought up amonst the English I feel communication on a cultural level maybe difficult and I would have to explain many things to get her use to life in this country and my patience ain't that great.
So tell me what should I do ? On the one hand marry some Bengali bird from this country who has been raised and does nothing for me but offers conversation, or go get a designer bride who will provide limited conversation. What do I do ? I have found that many of the girls in this country now expect too much to the point of fucking fantasy bollocks and their vanity is quite overwhelming. But at the same time feel that I need the conversation and someone who can relate to the culture I have been bought up in. Then going for the designer bird - I feel like I have an option of going to some Porn site and getting a picture of one that I fancy and sending a picture of her to my family back in Bangladesh and say ' find me a woman that looks like that and is educated...' and they could do it.
What would you guys do ? - I need a few answers and this week I maybe meeting two/three girls with extreme pressure from my parents. My mother gives me that look that says - 'son if you don't make up your fucking mind ... I am going to honour kill you'. I really don't know.
Regards,
MORON
P.S - serious replies only please as the matter is depressing for me.
This is gonna sound kind of strange but I am in need of some advice and I would prefer it came from those of you who are English or Asian descent to get various viewpoints.
I grew up in an English town that is nearly 100% english white and therefore I could be described as an Asian bloke of 33 years old who is 1/4 Asian, 1/4 Islamic, and 1/2 white conservative english - i.e. in mind. I have always been a good boy/man for most of my life and my parents are increasingly pressurising me to get married after looking for the last 3 years here in England. Obviously they have been looking for my own asian background kind i.e. Bengali.
I am no longer a looker of any kind anymore like I was in my 20's, still fit and athletic, but you know like footballers when we reach 30+ you get the odd facial wrinkle and so and so. The girls I have seen don't even turn me on at all, I would go as far as saying they make me want to cry - but here lies the problem, some are a bit over the top Islamic and therfore you cannot put a foot wrong, or they are not what you would call respectfull enough to understand their duties as a wife. So I don't know what to do - and of course there are girls I liked who don't like me because they don't fancy me.
The other option I have is to get a designer bride from Bangladesh who is educated in English and some other proffession, I can have a great pick and I am pretty much guaranteed that they will be a good wife. However, been bought up amonst the English I feel communication on a cultural level maybe difficult and I would have to explain many things to get her use to life in this country and my patience ain't that great.
So tell me what should I do ? On the one hand marry some Bengali bird from this country who has been raised and does nothing for me but offers conversation, or go get a designer bride who will provide limited conversation. What do I do ? I have found that many of the girls in this country now expect too much to the point of fucking fantasy bollocks and their vanity is quite overwhelming. But at the same time feel that I need the conversation and someone who can relate to the culture I have been bought up in. Then going for the designer bird - I feel like I have an option of going to some Porn site and getting a picture of one that I fancy and sending a picture of her to my family back in Bangladesh and say ' find me a woman that looks like that and is educated...' and they could do it.
What would you guys do ? - I need a few answers and this week I maybe meeting two/three girls with extreme pressure from my parents. My mother gives me that look that says - 'son if you don't make up your fucking mind ... I am going to honour kill you'. I really don't know.
Regards,
MORON
P.S - serious replies only please as the matter is depressing for me.
